A lot of marriages are suffering everywhere in the World due to One partner's indiscretion or negligence...the story below seems strange but true and was sent by a female follower of a channel the author also follows....read on in the lady's own words below!
"I am 28 and my husband is 31. I got married this February 2015. I'm pregnant but my hubby doesn't care about me or the baby I have in me. I met him 2012 not knowing he had a girlfriend. I started dating him though it was a long distance relationship. On his birthday in 2013, I found out about her, he told me that they were done, I believed him but it was all a lie..... I kept on seeing him and with time I started getting calls from the girl, telling me that they are seeing each other and very much in love. I had problems with him and the girl but to cut everything short he asked to come and see my people and I let him even though he never asked me to marry him like every other man would do. After he came to meet my parents, we started making arrangements for our wedding. He moved the date so many times for no reasonable cause, soon after the girl called me back to tell me that he is only getting married to me because of his family. I never believed her because I thought she was just being jealous. While the preparation was going on my hubby once sent me a message that our marriage is a compromise, I called to ask him why he said so and he called it a joke that he just wanted to know what I will do. So many things happened while we were preparing for the big day that would have made me back off but I still got myself into it. We got married and on the night of our wedding he didn't even act like he was lying on the same bed with a woman let alone his newly wedded bride and I asked him what was wrong, he said he was tired. The following day and like 4 to 5 days after our wedding. I am almost always the one that asks for sex. He has touched me not more that 5 times till date and the 5 times was within the week after our wedding. To make it worse, since the week after our wedding he sleeps on the couch till date. We always have one misunderstanding after another, he tells me he doesn't love me and even shows it. He doesn't like spending anytime with me at all and doesn't stay at home with the excuse of meetings or work. Even when he is a bit free he stays up at his mum's because we live in the same building; he hardly eats my food too. I met someone who's a mutual friend with him and the other girl and I found out that even while the wedding preparations were going on, he was still seeing the girl and he loves this girl so much that he never for once sides me whenever I talk about her. I'm getting so tried of this thing called marriage, sometimes I blame myself because I somehow knew I might see something like this but I was thinking he might change after we get married. I believe he is still seeing that girl because I found out she's the one he truly loves but because of his family he got married to me. He got leave from work this August and what he did was to travel to another state to stay with his friend.
Please I really need an advice on what to do, should I leave the marriage or stay and hopeful that things must change?
Please help"
Culled from a Nigerian BBM Channel, Matters Of the Heart
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